A common mistake is in believing that you are the original "Singer-of-the Song" of your life.
Even though you're really only lip-synching the words, you're still trying to take the credit... or the blame... for the song that's being sung.
And, ironically, you're still responsible for all of your choices...even though you don't seem to have any control over making them.
Responsibility... but not "blame."
However, there will still be consequences.
Chuck Hillig